As a Las Vegas native, Nessa knows the city very well.
Language: English, French
Nationality: United States
Weight: 125 lbs
You have heard of Las Vegas even if you have never visited before. There is a very good reason for that, and that is that there is more to do here in Vegas than in almost any other entertainment capital. In part this is because of all the things that happen to be legal in Vegas that aren’t legal anywhere else (or if they are legal elsewhere, it’s still rare), like gambling and so on, but part of this is just the vibrant energy and culture of Vegas itself. This is an exciting city. The ad campaign, “What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas,” was one of the city’s smarter moves, because it so beautifully sums up why people come to this city. They come for adventure and for a touch of the exotic. They want to do things they’ve never done before, experience things they’ve never experienced before. That’s part of the experience. And that’s why Nessa has spent so much time getting to know the city.
“I know all the city’s greatest fun spots,” Nessa explains. “I am always looking for someplace new. It doesn’t matter if that’s a restaurant, or a club, or a museum. If it’s someplace fun, then I want to know about it, and I want to get a taste. To me, that’s life. Tasting life, getting it full in your face, following your bliss and living every day as though it’s both a party and an adventure… Mmm, baby, that’s the life I want for myself. That’s why I enjoy my life so much, and why I enjoy my job so much.” Nessa is equally frank about her ability to be comfortable in any social situation. “It doesn’t matter to me if you want to do something fun and flirty or down and dirty, something formal and serious or something fun and casual,” she says. “Whatever you’ve got, baby, I’m up for it. I can’t stand the thought of wasting a day. I don’t want to be one of those people who only starts contemplating all of their life dreams when they realize they’re running out of time. I’m young and beautiful now and I intend to enjoy it. I’m not putting anything off.”
Nessa is also honest about her naughty side. “Look, I know that lots of girls like to claim to be naughty,” she says. “It plays well. It makes people think that here is a girl who knows how to make them feel good, a girl who is in touch with her sexier side. And that’s true. But when I say I can be naughty, I mean I really enjoy that. I like feeling like I’ve been a bad girl. I like that anticipation when I know my lover is going to ‘punish’ me for being naughty. And I like being able to shock and surprise people. I am completely honest about my sexuality. I think you’ve got to be honest in life. There’s no point in living your life any other way, is there? You just risk wasting it, if you don’t grab what you want, and say what you think, and tell people exactly what’s on your mind.” Of course, Nessa is also a perfect angel when it comes to pleasing clients. “I’m only as naughty as my lover wants me to be,” she admits. “I mean, there are limits to what any girl can do, right? But I love to be loved, and I love it when it’s down and dirty. I also enjoy being fun and flirty. Really, I’m the kind of girl who can turn on a dime, but only on request. I think there’s a difference between being spontaneous and being unpredictable. Being unpredictable isn’t fun for anyone, but being spontaneous, that means you can be fun. That means your lover can enjoy doing what he’s doing.”
Nessa admits that she’s happiest when she is giving herself up on the dance floor. “I lose myself when I’m dancing,” she says. “I like to feel the music deep inside me, feel what it’s doing to me, feel it driving me wild. Music is so important, so primal. I don’t think you’re ever more in touch with yourself and your body than when you are dancing. And I love to be in touch with my body. It might be the feeling that I love best in the world. I’m a very sensual creature, really, and that’s okay. I have always believed you should never apologize for that. You should never feel like you can’t be exactly who you are in this world.”
Being exactly who she lies at the heart of Nessa’s philosophy about being honest with herself. “To me,” she says, the only thing you possess in this life is you. If you don’t take charge of your life, if you don’t live life on your own terms, then you are living as a slave. I don’t ever want to wake up and think that I’m not in control of me, that I don’t completely own myself. There’s a way that every girl has to get up and face this life, and if you can’t do it with complete honesty, then it’s not worth doing. This is everything to me. I have to know when I get up and face the dawn each day that the day I’m about to have is worth going out and embracing. It’s more than just seizing the day like in that movie. It’s about being true to who you are and being able to look yourself in the mirror every day. There’s an old poem about the man in the glass. You have to be able to stare down that person in the mirror every day, because as soon as you can’t, then it’s over.”
Nessa is the kind of girl who knows that when she walks by, every man is going to be focused on her. She’s okay with that. “Men love me,” she says. “They know that I have the qualities they want in a girl. I can be fun. I can be sweet. I can show them the respect that they deserve. The average man has been treated pretty badly most of his life. He doesn’t have to put up with that when he’s with me. He can finally be the man he wants to be, and I can be myself too.”